
"If love of God is proved by love of neighbour, many Bhutanese are  very close to God,” wrote Father William Mackey (1915-1995) in his  unfinished book, and warranted it by saying that the Bhutanese really  love their neighbours.
The Canadian Jesuit lived in Bhutan for  32 years, most of it in remote areas, where he assisted in setting up  modern schools.  In these institutions, he joined the students in their  daily prayers and observed them.  For him, this experience not only gave  him an insight into Buddhism and enriched his life, but also allowed  him to understand his own god and life more clearly.
  The Guluphulus
For father, it was an evening ritual to wander through the dormitory,  before the lights were turned out.  There, he encountered students  squatting on their beds, unconscious of the commotion around them.  He  described this as experiencing prayer. “They descend inside themselves,  beneath the level of sense beneath the level of mind to the fundamental  level of being.”  
 Father called this immobile meditation, where experience of reality is  given importance and the practice to encounter oneness and uniqueness  takes precedence over the intellectual approach (father thought this was  a fallacy).  Unlike his approach to god, he found his students approach  more realistic.  He said that they did not try to grasp infinite  reality with their finite minds or through fixed concepts.  He said it  was impossible to do so, as no word or image can express an unlimited  reality.
 Moved by his student’s ability to calm their minds, he slowly began to  follow their examples. “I can now squat peacefully for 45 minutes every  morning, trying to experience the reality of god in my life,” father  said. “The Bhutanese guluphulus (rascals) have taught me how to pray.”
 According to father, the religion of Bhutan is more Lamaism Buddhism,  and he believes it to have come from India via Tibet, infiltrated with a  large dose of Tibetan tantrism, Chinese beliefs and doctrines.
 Father was impressed with how the Bhutanese were close to reality.  For  example, he said it was common practice to make simple daily offerings.  “The offering of the day with all its troubles, problems good and bad,  one of the children will take the sangphur - little metal cup or vase -  in which some leaves or sticks are burning and waft the smoke in front  of their altar, and around the room.  It is a daily Bhutanese morning  offering of the day, good and bad difficulties and problems, to Sangye,  Lord Buddha, asking for his help and guidance.” 
 Soon father’s approach to prayer became what he called, Bhutanese and  Trinitarian. “I try to experience the reality of being father in being  “I am”- an opportunity to be - a chance to suffer, work, and pray to  make a little world a more loving place.
  YabYum - Duality and Union
The Jesuit Dragon said that Lamaism propagated the practice of duality  and union and, using a common sight as an example, explained the concept  and experience of union that an individual can experience in this life.  “Every temple contains statues and pictures; every home has its own  statue of YabYum - Mother and Father squatting in the marriage act -  similar to the Song of Songs in the Bible.” 
 Father said that this is how Bhutanese represent the union, the oneness  of individual with the Supreme Being, one in mind and body, in affection  and in love. 
  God - Who is he or her?
One of the fundamental differences between Buddhism and Christianity is  the concept of God.  The former faith accepts that all sentient beings  have the seed of Buddha and can become one; while Christians believe in  the concept of the Supreme Being.  Buddhists are open to the idea of  creation and happy to debate about it; while in the western world, god  is seen as the creator.
 Father said that the god he believes in is the Supreme Being and is  omnipotent, omniscient and has ways and means that we know nothing  about.  However, like any Christian, Father believes that God is the  creator and saviour. “God is at work in all religions. God has created  all men. He wants to save all men.” 
 For a Buddhist, the reality of Supreme Being is too big to be included  in a name or image.  Father admitted this and said that the people of  Bhutan represented this concept, in art as a small temple on top of a  mountain with rays of light coming from the lhakhang or the monastery.   Father agrees that no concepts can enclose the limitless. “No word or  idea can express the unknowable. No mind can grasp the ungraspable.” 
 The Jesuit states that the Christian idea of experience is not  appreciated.  He believed that mirroring the Supreme Being is possible,  and says that experience and love implies to all life and are  fundamentally one. “All life is sacred because it mirrors something in  an inferior way of the reality of the Supreme Being. There is no “I”; it  does not mirror God. But God has mirrored the “I” and if it does not  exist, that would imply a certain equality of being, a dualism of being  that is not advaita, not two. A true Buddhist strives to strip his ego  and eventually annihilate it, destroying the I.
 “I can see God the Father, Son and Spirit actually, really at work in  Lamaism. My work and life have been enriched by my contact with  Lamaism.” Father reminds himself that, by living, working and praying  with the Bhutanese, he could experience his god’s omniscience. 
 Father Mackey lived 32 years in Bhutan.  During this time, the Roman  Catholic never converted any of his students.  Instead, he drew  inspiration from the guluphulus and quietly reveals it in his book that  never saw the light of day.  The Canadian Jesuit acknowledged the  spiritual depth of the Bhutanese, and admitted that it influenced his  life and changed his perception of the concept of god and helped him  become a better person; a good Christian, Catholic, Jesuit and priest,  and prays that he could be a bridge between these two faiths and enrich  them.
Source: Kuenselonline